Hi loves,
So many of you have told us some version of the same thing: “I want to make new friends. I just don’t know how anymore.” And trust us, we understand it.
Because nobody really teaches you how to make a friend as an adult. But we realised there’s another part of this conversation we don’t talk about enough either.
What happens after you meet someone you could actually be friends with?
Because finding your people is one thing. Letting yourself be known by them is another.
Messaging first. Asking for help. Saying when something hurt. Letting someone see you when you’re not completely fine. Staying for the uncomfortable conversation instead of quietly stepping away.
Maybe deep friendship doesn’t just require finding the right women.
Maybe it requires being brave enough to let them get close.
A quick question for you before you go:
Which is actually harder in your thirties?
This one means a lot to us, for reasons you’ll understand when you get to the end.
Read this week’s post → Between Us
With love,
Abbey & Bianca x